Some days are easier than others. Some days I’m really excited about cooking. Some days, not so much. Some days I feel a rather old 75. Other days I could tackle almost any project and declare myself the winner. But even when I’m not thrilled about the prospects of spending time in the kitchen, we still have to eat. And on those days I cut myself some slack.  

I’ve been making these grilled tuna sandwiches for decades now. But until I decided to make “tuna melts” for dinner last Friday night, and went on line to research recipes, I didn’t realize that I had been making grilled tuna melt sandwiches all this time. I thought they were just hot tuna sandwiches. (Grilled Tuna Melt Sandwiches sounds so much more exotic.)

Anyway, I made these babies for dinner last Friday and they were just what the doctor ordered. Crispy on the outside, gooey on the inside, with a bit of crunch curtesy of the diced celery. When served with potato chips, they were the perfect Friday night repast. And the total time spent in the kitchen? About 20 minutes.

So if you too have days when any time spent in your kitchen feels like punishment, give this recipe a try. I promise that your family will love these sandwiches, and you will have given yourself a little reprieve from a long, exhaustive recipe, even if most of the time you would look forward to just that. We all need a break. And I don’t care if it’s from what normally keeps you sane. (Like how spending time in the kitchen helps me.)

So don’t be afraid to pamper yourself. Fixing something that isn’t difficult to prepare doesn’t make you less of a good cook or provider. It just means that you are human and perhaps a bit overwhelmed. (If there were ever a time when “overwhelmed” might best describe the majority of us, it’s right now as we all try to successfully maneuver through this coronavirus nightmare!)

So take heart. Relax. Take a deep breath. And stay positive. If building a sandwich rather than preparing Beef Wellington works best for you, then build a sandwich. Beef Wellington can wait.

As always, peace, love, and let’s toast to easier days to come.

1 T. finely minced onion or dehydrated onion

1/3 c. finely diced celery

3-4 heaping T. mayonnaise, plus more as needed

1 tsp. Dijon mustard

1/8 tsp. seasoned salt

freshly ground black pepper

1/3 c. grated sharp cheddar cheese

1 can water packed albacore tuna, drained (We buy our tuna from Costco)

4 pieces of hearty whole wheat bread

soft butter

In a small bowl, mix the onion, celery, mayonnaise, mustard, seasoned salt, pepper, cheese, and tuna. The mixture will be fairly dry, but not to the point of cardboard. Add more mayonnaise as required.

Spread the mixture over two pieces of the bread. Slap the other 2 pieces of bread on top. (These are called sandwiches.)

Butter one side of each sandwich and place it butter side down on a warm griddle over medium heat. You don’t want to heat these sandwiches too rapidly. You want the cheese to melt as they cook. Butter the second side, and when the first side is nicely browned, flip it over and toast the second side. (I usually flip the sandwiches more than once so that the filling gets good and hot and the cheese nice and melty. When done serve immediately.